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My Story – From Noise to North

TL;DR: I spent years chasing approval, over-promising, and folding under pressure.
Returning to land and season rhythm taught me reliability over performance, presence over noise.
Now I help men do the same – simply and steadily.

Reliability is attractive.

Before

I knew how to look strong, not how to be steady. I over-gave, apologized for existing, and tried to earn love by performing.
In private, I’d avoid hard conversations and break small promises to myself – death by a thousand cuts.

Boundaries are love.

The cracks

When you avoid edges, life shrinks. Work blurred into late nights. My body ran hot but empty.
Relationships became negotiations with my own fear.
I kept telling myself I’d get disciplined “tomorrow”.

Return to land

I stopped bargaining with tomorrow and went back to what raised me: season, weather, work with the hands.
Wind, light, and water became my teachers again.
I learned to breathe slower, to look wider, to do one simple thing well – today.
I traded spectacle for steadiness: sit, listen, carry, mend, return.

Nature resets noise.

What changed

  • I set clean boundaries and kept them.

  • I chose warmth without collapse – open heart, steady spine.

  • I practiced follow-through: one real action inside 72 hours, every time.

  • I became someone I could count on. People felt it before I said a word.

How that became my work

Men don’t need more hype. We need ground. I coach with the same ingredients that rebuilt me:

  • Breath & attention to steady the nervous system.

  • Season rhythm so actions fit the time we’re actually in.

  • Simple fieldcraft & micro-practices you can do anywhere (urban welcome).

  • Honest council and one sentence vow you’ll keep.

This is coaching, not therapy. It’s patient, practical, and measurable.

Guardrails & lineage

I’m a Sámi man. This work is Sámi-led and land-rooted.
I share what is mine to share – breath, attention, fieldcraft, seasonal rhythm, and simple craft.
I don’t teach ceremonies, sacred places, or restricted “songs”.
I speak from my experience and teachers; I don’t speak for all Sámi.

If you’re at the edge

Your life doesn’t need more noise. It needs a North.